THE GREAT DEBATE by Tomilola of Style Loveletter is an awesome post. truly truly awesome. she strikes me as an achiever and a very down-to-earth personality. every issue the great debate points at is an issue indeed. It’s time we spent time building ourselves up and not tearing the other person down.
All this 100percent concentration on outward appearance is actually very dangerous. as women, we have to come to the realization that we are vessels of destiny and are instrumental in the shaping of these destinies. how can we tell them to be themselves and be proud of themselves and all that yada yada when we have trouble finding ourselves under so much petty frivolity?
We are all guilty…i’ll go work on myself while you go do the same….and don’t you dare judge me!